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About talesfromthemotherland

Straight up, with a twist... my twisted view of things. Join me for the ride. Zipping through a mid-life glitch (not quite a crisis... yet) I live in one of the most beautiful places anywhere. I'm the mother of 3 intelligent, attractive and challenging kids and the wife of a talented, attractive, challenging man. I love to travel; India is my spiritual, second home. I love hiking and being in the wilderness, but I also need to be near the ocean, or a large body of salt water, to survive. That makes where I live, pretty damned perfect. That and all the incredibly cool and dynamic people who live here too. I think I have something to say about lots of things, and hope you agree.

Bravo! Let’s Get Real…

Hi, my name is Tales From the Motherland, and I’m addicted to reality.  Please don’t call me out for using the classic “meeting” hello; trust me, there will be plenty of opportunities to judge here. Those of you who are … Continue reading

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Dear Mother…

Dear young mother at the park, Today I watched you stand by the bay, holding your baby boy, and I couldn’t take my eyes off of you. I’m not a stalker; I’m an aging mother, and seeing you there, touched … Continue reading

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That’s What She Said…

I am one lucky girl; let me start with that. One very lucky girl! This past weekend I got to spend a long weekend at a spectacular resort/spa in Tucson, Arizona. First, let me say that I’m not one of … Continue reading

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Build a House or Build a Marriage… Same Thing?

A friend and I were talking the other night about relationships— marriage, and how we advise/ nurture/support our daughters and young women we love, as they navigate waters that we entered a long, long time ago. While most of this … Continue reading

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Spring is in the Air… Finally.

It’s May first, May Day. As a kid, living in a small New England town, May day was always a fun day. Back in school, we still did the Maypole. Yes, I actually grew up dancing around a white pole … Continue reading

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I Like Mike.

Note: there are several links in this post, to other bloggers who I follow and enjoy. there are many others, but check out the posts I’ve included. Over the nearly two years that I’ve been blogging, I’ve had the good … Continue reading

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Oh, Boy.

In the past month I’ve had the honor and pleasure of having reconnected with three young men, who I’ve known since they were boys. All three are friends of my son Middle Man’s, and I got to catch up with … Continue reading

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Right, Write, Writer.

Recently a fellow writing friend said something that really threw me off guard, and challenged me to look at myself, my aspirations and my own self doubts. We were discussing publishing, and I was (once again) struggling with decisions about … Continue reading

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When Evil Comes Home.

On Monday, April 15th a bomb went off at the Boston Marathon. The news was stunning; watching it unfold in my home town was surreal. My very first thoughts, instant, when I heard about the explosion, were for a few friends from … Continue reading

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What seminal event from the past 20 years has emotionally affected you the most, and why?

Reblogged from The Outlier Collective: Like “The Girl,” who wrote a powerful post on Tuesday about the Earthquake in Haiti, when I was asked by the fabulous Madame Weebles to contribute to this topic, I had to really think. Unlike … Continue reading

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