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Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by talesfromthemotherland

talesfromthemotherland — Tue, 21 May 2013 00:44:35 +0000

Thanks Madame. I really appreciate all the kind words and support you’ve offered. Meant a lot when you invited me to contribute to Outlier. It was a wonderful boost. It’s really helpful to have such a great blogging community, where I find others who experience similar things, and are so supportive. Thanks Weebs.

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by talesfromthemotherland

talesfromthemotherland — Tue, 21 May 2013 00:40:38 +0000

Thanks Mariner… it’s been a slow climb, but it feels good to have my head above water again. Thanks for the support and kind words! We should try to connect some time; that would be fun. : )

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by Madame Weebles

Madame Weebles — Mon, 20 May 2013 22:34:34 +0000

Oh, My Lady, I hear you. I have been there too. When it’s just too much trouble to put two words together. When the idea of seeing people in person can set off a downward spiral–or in my case, panic attacks. I’m glad you have so many good people around you–people who love you will wait and be supportive and love you until you’re ready to start the upward climb.

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by mariner2mother

mariner2mother — Mon, 20 May 2013 21:31:29 +0000

My heart is totally with you, and I’m so glad you’re on your way up. If you ever want to meet, say, at that Starbucks you had a photo of not too long ago; the one by the bay, just holler. I’m not too far south of you, and I head up to the big city fairly often. But you’ll have to excuse me if I don’t drink coffee- never developed a taste for it. I love tea, however.

I’m not a big fan of most of the Housewives shows, but I love Tabatha. And it cracks me up that she doesn’t like to hug. Who doesn’t like a hug? And over on TLC, I love Theresa, the Long Island Medium. Cheers and kudos for getting Real.

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by talesfromthemotherland

talesfromthemotherland — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:45:12 +0000

Thanks Le Clown. You’ve been a wonderful support and sounding board when I’ve needed it, and I’ve really appreciated that. Yes, I’m not sure we could have been much closer in our approaches this week… I posted last Thursday and then took off for a writing retreat, in the most beautiful of places… listening to blue birds, watching the wind on the high desert alpine and mountains, and laughing with friends… I’m moving through this. Some days, I just sit with that coffee, and a Real Housewife or two. (don’t judge- we agree in theory). Thanks! d

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by Le Clown

Le Clown — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:37:40 +0000

Dawn,
Got you. And how much more closer could our posts get this week? Sometimes, there isn’t anything else to do but to let it pass, and the way you need it to pass, at your own pace, with your own methods. But you know that. Other times, reaching out is good. And you know how to reach me, even if it’s just a 3-word email, to vent, to say hi, to touch base. Much love and calm to you, Dawn.
Le Clown

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by talesfromthemotherland

talesfromthemotherland — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:22:25 +0000

I’m braced dear friend. Braced. Any time you want to share, I’m here. xo Your comments are always so wise and supportive; I’m lucky to have you in my life Val. For 40 years now. Thanks for sharing!

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by talesfromthemotherland

talesfromthemotherland — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:14:38 +0000

Yo, thanks Adam.Yes, I’m a head trip for sure. Need to refocus some energy and get out of the rut… not think so much. Nice to see you here, and thanks for the support! Much appreciated, yo.

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by Valery

Valery — Sun, 19 May 2013 14:09:44 +0000

Scary. Very few of us, if any, are prepared to navigate the minefields of depression. I loved your “hello” intro., it was perfect, and seemed so appropriate.

Personally, I don’t understand why our society trains us in reading, writing and ‘rithmetic, yet falls short in training for the machinery that’s required to process those three “r’s”. Seems to me, there are basic operating and maintenance manuals for all of the inanimate machines we use, from toasters to tablets and “smart”phones, etc. Where is the basic manual for the most complicated machine we use: the miraculous human brain?

Picture a classroom of kindergarten kids, who are practising letter sounds, basic addition, and how to name the basic emotions. Would it be easier for these kids to talk about their feelings openly and without any shame? If they continued to learn about mental health and wellness throughout the years, would they be more able to recognize basic signs and symptoms in the people around them – without judging them? No doubt. I remember taking a class in basic psychology as an elective. In high school. Nothing was offered earlier, and by high school everybody has already been exposed to common cliches, stigmas and stereotypes.

Oh, what a topic you’ve broached. Bravo. I am once again in awe of your courage and commitment. Maybe someday when you’re braced for a doozey, I’ll share my abyss(es) with you. Love you! <3

Comment on Bravo! Let’s Get Real… by Adam S

Adam S — Sun, 19 May 2013 04:44:51 +0000

Ah, a topic I know all to well. Not Bravo, the other thing. It just fucking blows some days. No point in mincing words or sugar coating. It’s good to know that I’m not alone. Not because I feel good about your suffering, but because all of us clowns are experiencing the same thing, which makes it feel slightly normal. I’m all up in my head and I bet you are too. We’re smart people. That’s what smart people do. Focus your energy outward. That’s my philosophy, anyways. Chin up, yo.